Wednesday, July 14, 2010

You Are FAT!

The three words that could wreck anyone's day! hell, even their complete self confidence. I became a victim of this powerful weapon last evening when an anonymous person left a comment on my last post Turbanization. My immediate reaction was to delete it and down it with some rum and wake up next day with even more 'fat' to last me till the next attempt.

But I stayed mortified and actionless. I shut down the browser and looked in the mirror. Yes, I'm fat. Yes, I could lose 15 kgs and feel awesome. Yes, I could actually stick to my diet for once. Yes, I hate 'anonymous' and hate it even more that he's actually quite accurate in his description. But is that all that matters? Should I hide behind anonymity and run a treadmill till I'm perfect???

HELL NO, I'm not gonna stop loving fashion or dressing up or posting my pics just because One random prejudiced and myopic person thinks fashion's all about skinny girls. Its my blog, Its my space, Its my decision that matters. I'm me. I'm unique. I'm beautiful. I'm stylish. I'm unaffected.

and blog buddies.. don't let such assholes steal your sunshine either. I'm beautiful.. no matter what they say.. words can't bring me down!

Haters, boo ya!
Here's some Bombay love :



Autos, Autos everywhere...


Love the quilted blue on the top... very sartorial auto wallah! though that's my sis in the pic:)


AUTO ART!



AUTO ART!




DONT OUCH ME! (T fallen off!)


Me.. blurred, tired, back from work!

Much Love,

13 comments:

Tanvi said...

Whenever I get mean/acidic comments my instant reaction is rage but then I read them again, analyze myself and see if they are true, and if they are then I have something to work for and if not I move on from there. I agree with you that it's your space... and just because someone has an opinion doesn't mean you have to shut down your blog and drown in Vodka ;) You be yourself and do what makes you happy!

bollywoodstylediaries said...

Whats wrong with being fat?? yes, I understand obesity is bad becoz of bad health effects but when did people decide that fat is not good and why was I not invited to this meeting???

ur perfect the way u are - ask ur mom:-)

Self-esteem does not come from how u look but from whats inside of u..u have lots of it and thats why u are blogging and the other person did not even have the guts the leave her/his name with the comment. u go girl!!!

Sovina said...

hey ! i would say that do not pay attention to these comments..of course you can wear anything and dress up the way yo want. but important thing is if you feel healthy and good about yourself, it is okay...if not and you feel that you should take some step then go ahead..usually i do not pay heed to such people but when my friends or husband tells me something, i do..

and, also i have an award waiting fro you on my blog..please go and gab it..congratulations.. :))

H said...

Big girl, you are beautiful. ;)
Although you are not big by any measure.
I think you're very pretty. One jealous idiot barely matters, no?

GB said...

Don't let it get you down. Anon didn't have the guts to even put his/her name up there...guess who's the coward?

I say good for you, you have the guts to stand up for who you are. and no, fashion and beauty is not and definitely should not be about weight. Its about class and how well you carry yourself. You look great the way you are. Block anonymous commenters...they're usually the ones up to no good!

Mitr Friend - Bhushavali said...

Who was that anonymous FA who said that!!!
Come on guys grow up. You cant keep drooling over those anorexic models on the ramp. Its us who are normal!!! Its all those women you meet daily at office, stores, malls who are real, who are healthy.

Simple logic guys - those anorexic models in size 0 will fall dead if you just hug them. Its us who can hug you back!! :)

On a Casual Date - Style 3

kty said...

hey! just came across your blog and loved it...have read almost all posts an one go...LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!!
@haters...i think these guys need more love....maybe the munnabhai style...you are beautiful...never forget that....

Sara said...

I honestly think you're beautiful and you have an amazing, amazing sense of style!!

L1L2 said...

great attitude! and yea, life goes on with or without the fat right... so keep on sharing your 'uber chic' sense of style and we look forward to the updates. we heart the auto arts!!!

shooting star said...

the anonymous blog commenters, with their scidic comments - you know what they really are, they are coward bullies, they like to taunt and bully people from the commfort of their shells, coz they dont have the courage to face the world- real or online ...dont give a damn to such people!!.....
u luk very fresh at the end of the day too!!..
and please do accept my condolences for ur nani.

Fashion Bombay said...

Oh u go girl. We've got similar shitty comments they are losers and cowards. We may be 'fat' but we have style and enough courage to see their comments and not delete them.
Be proud of yourself and remember you are gorgeous.

Lot of love,
Co-fat girls :)

Get Gawjus! said...

I come accross this all the time hun and ignore is tbe best I can do. These have to be some insecure jerks to tell ppl nasty stuff! You look so pretty in all ya pics you know :)

Prutha said...

ohh girl.. my nick name all my life has been jadi or motu etc... but i have never let that affect me...

yes being a big person like u and me is not a bad thing at all.. as long as we take care of our bodies to not be totally unhealthy and respect it...

ignore negativity!!! u dont need it... u know ur beautiful...really, dont u? i do!!

keep at it.. put on that fab smile and show me freaking creativity...

and yes some ppl r just haters and image how sad their lives must be coz noone in real live would genuinely like a hater like that....

BIG HUG !!